If you’re not breathing… breathe. This topic stirs up all kinds of responses. If you’re upset or annoyed, please keep reading. I suspect today’s title might even trigger stronger reactions for some. If you’re reacting, I can share that my learning of this very practice brought much joy to my life and it also brought great joy and pleasure to the men in my life.
Whether you are a man or a woman, I invite you to see how the feminine shows up in your life. Do you allow it? Do you hide it? Do you fear it? Do you think it’s weak? Fearing the feminine, hiding it away, and for some even hating it will obviously deeply challenge your ability to surrender to it. Even if you don’t love your feminine energy, you might recognize something here that suggests embracing it and surrendering to it does truly lead to joy, to healing, to bliss, to happiness, to ecstasy, for both the surrender-er and the one surrendered to.
Just as I said last time, our society has enormous conditioning around feminine energy. I read once that in the minds of many the worst thing you could call a man or a woman was “a woman.” Yet, the feminine has soooo much power, so much to give, so much to offer the world… experiences, feelings, sensations… that are not possible from any other place besides feminine surrender. Not only that, you’ll read shortly about the enormous attractive power of surrender.
The moon can affect our moods, behavior, our bodies – and naturally within this our libido; sexual desires and activity. Sacred sex by the full or new/black moon can connect with ‘birthing’ ideas into reality and letting go of what no longer serves to create even deeper love for yourself and between you and your beloved.
As making love is an act of ‘co-creation’ it thus has the potential for manifestation, especially on a new moon.